“Honestly, I love spending alone time with each of my kids.  Whether its reading a story, playing a game, talking about the day.  I love car rides that I have 1 or 2 with me because the dynamic is so different when all 3 are together.  I feel like I get to know each one on a deeper level if that makes sense.  My 8 year old still wants me to lay with him before bed and, although I often end up falling asleep too, that is our time to chat without interruptions from the twins.  I want him to know that he can tell us anything, and sometimes I feel that time with him falls to the wayside because the others are more dependent.  “   -Danielle